Male and Female alliances with toxic stereotypes

We are all destined, imperfect and mortal. It is a huge break when we realize that our adolescent dreams of immortality and specialty are illusions, that we are all headed in the same direction, and that none of us can buy a return ticket. We will no longer be astronauts, heroes, famous rock musicians, we will not write the best novel in the world and we will not say it anymore, and we will not make the same mistakes as our parents. We abandon heroic, rebellious thinking, start using expressions like "my time is crunching" or "as long as you eat my bread", maybe "victory is important, but participation" and other parenting clichés that make us scream we got scared back then.